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A client once went quiet on me for eleven days.

I'd sent over a render I was proud of.
His reply was one word.
"Thanks."

I told myself he was busy.
Reviewing internally. Looping in his boss.
All the stories you tell yourself when you don't want to hear the real one.

He wasn't thinking it over.
He'd already decided something was off, and he didn't have the words for it.
So he said nothing, and I filled the silence with the most comfortable explanation I could find.

Here's what I missed.

When a client goes vague on you, that's not neutral.
That's the most important feedback you'll get on the whole project, and it arrives disguised as nothing.
"Thanks." "Looks good." "Let me sit with it."
Those aren't approvals.
They're the sound of a client who can't tell you what's wrong because they don't have the language for it.

That's your job, not theirs.

The fix isn't to wait politely.
It's to go back in and give them the words.

"Quick check before I move on - when you look at this, does your eye land where you want it to, or does it feel scattered?"

You're not chasing.
You're handing them a vocabulary for the thing they're feeling but can't name.

Nine times out of ten, the silence breaks instantly.
And the version that comes back is the one you should have been briefed on at the start.

A quiet client isn't a happy client.
A quiet client is a client you haven't finished talking to yet.

– Moritz

Tiny tactical tip:
Look at your most recent vague client reply - the "looks good" or the "thanks" you weren't sure about.
Send one specific question that gives them words for what they might be feeling: "Does your eye land where you want, or does it feel busy?"
Specific beats polite. It pulls the real reaction out before it turns into a lost project.

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